We are beings by nature gregarious, love company, especially the good company.

Boy, toys innocently with other children and if we do not have near the invented. Behold the reason often-early-usually give the impression that talk alone, when the truth is that we do with our friends invented, those ghosts are hidden in every corner and come to meet us rely only softly. We played everything and everything in our world is a game. We asked a lot and the answers do not really matter. A child will never want to get answers and make it early in an adult.

In adolescents, however, are rather withdrawn, rebellious, introverted, solitary. The noise sucks, and our search comes down to how do to get together with another two solitudes solitude to them becoming a company, do not nag … ask less.

And adults, do not ask anything. Obviously, the adult thinks he knows everything and therefore abstains.

So we ended up surrounded by adult people who always afraid to ask question or social rule, or because the Manual de Carreño advised that where you go so that you see, which translated into Castilian mean: damned if you, shut your mouth . !

How to understand and live with these friends as adults. Is it that they truly believe is the right to call any time to tell their troubles most trivial, ask to borrow money, speaking behind a mutual friend, or just congratulate between teeth by gender, as a hit inside the bursts envy?. What force of nature could restore the child to tell at that time to this kind of offline friends, with our angelic face and the cheeky del Chavo del Ocho:

- Peter.

“Yes, Rafael.

“Why do not you paint something.

“What could be.

-A forest and get lost!

That reality usual offline world has been dragging slowly to friends online, today’s omnipresent beings strive only for their virtues …. ofrecernoss nothing else matters. Here are some:

1. Questions and stimulate it. It’s like being a kid again. I ask all, from where we were born to local food, climate, through the exchange of the country, and ending with our perplexities, especially those about the origin of salt in the sea, the sex of angels and the immortality of the crab.

2. No envy. Ernesto Sabato, Argentine writer, teaches us that human beings often have a word of condolence to the families of his fellow dead, not because I regret, but as a final tribute to the fact that the dead no longer be your competition. Friends do not do so online. They are more sincere, not see you as competition or the fear. How fear of someone who only find the net with the gesture of the hand and the momentum of a click?

3. Are spontaneous. 2.0 The share of all friends and everybody. They are not stingy and give you plenty. From a link of interest to a phrase or a picture often travel over the network with lightning speed and the task of making us happy. So do not wait until the next day to have joy. How not to offer inexhaustible abundance if the network reaches for everything, even to organize a supply chain virtual prayer, in less than 3 minutes from the Pyrenees to the Tierra del Fuego.

4. Are far away. As close as a click and as far as most ever. We do not see it on the screen of our computers and so remote that we only know we go into a fresh. Or is it that we deny that more than one of us nearly died of a heart attack when a couple of friends offline before us at home, without warning, with the story to give us a surprise in tow carrying a newborn child , rheumatic grandmother, a dog with fleas, and a parrot. God. Online friends are a blessing!

5. None will eat your cheese. How will they eat it but will never have the opportunity to know where we are physically. And should they know it is not wise to encourage the meeting, as the illusion of friendship born of distance and mystery makes the magic. Two people had enough of helplessly succumb themselves into the jaws of boredom.

After this entry, and even in the studio, I was thinking a little more about it.

Internet perhaps we will become more virtual and less human? or perhaps the need for friendship is so great in these times of today it has moved into other niches. Whatever the truth, I said, the biggest difference between my friends offline and online friends is that I have to deal very often with the mistakes of the first and still wanting, while the excesses of the seconds I can always solve for with only one button on my PC.

In the latter case, yes, I would without a doubt. Would tighten the key, convinced that the tears do not flow by digital networks.

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